Sharing your hopes for
your sexual relationship
ReflectSeparately, say the prayer and spend some time reflecting on the questions.
Write some notes so that you can share more fully with your spouse.
Father, You have made me in Your image and likeness.
You want much more for me than I could ever dream of for myself.
Help me to open up to the possibilities You have placed within me.
Let me dream as mighty dreams, for myself as You do for me.
I ask this through our Lord Jesus. Amen.
Answer for yourself. We are so brainwashed about sex in our society that we tend to take our ideals about sex and sexuality from general attitudes which put the focus on the physical, youth, the act, etc. Have your own ideals.
In exchanging try to draw the goodness of the other into you, in the very exchange, even before reading.
1. If my fairy godmother were to appear and tell me I could have three wishes about sex and sexuality, what would they be, for me?
2. For you?
3. For us?