Parish Information


Engaged Online allows you to provide flexible, high-quality marriage preparation from within your own parish.

Designed to be experienced over a period of two to four months, Engaged Online responds to the call of the recent Synods on the Family for marriage preparation to be more like a catechumenate than a once off course that is completed in a day or weekend.

How it Works


1. Meet & Enroll

    • The Priest/Deacon meets with the Engaged Couple to complete paperwork, book the church and enroll in SmartLoving Engaged Online.
    • If you want your couple to be accompanied by a married Sponsor Couple, you can provide one from the parish, or ask the engaged couple to approach a parish couple. Direct potential Sponsor couples to to find out more.



2. Course Participation

  • The couple completes the course at their own pace, ideally one lesson per week. Each lesson includes tools to practice before the next lesson.


  • If they are accompanied by a Sponsor Couple, the two couples meet regularly to discuss the key concepts using the discussion guide in the workbook.

3. Graduation & Follow Up

  • Once the last lesson has been completed, the couple does a short answer assessment to obtain their Course Report and Completion Certificate.


  • Couples and clergy meet to review the Course Report and discuss what they have learned. SL sends follow up material and Sponsor Couples provide ongoing support.

Impact Statistics

(2017 graduates)

Watch the video for all the details.


Review the Course for Free

It is easy, just click the button bellow fill out the form, create your account and get instant access to the Sponsor version of the Engaged course which is identical to the Engaged couple version with the exception of the progression and time locks. This means that you can move to any lesson in the course in any order and that you are not required to spend the minimum hour in each lesson before attempting the lesson quizzes.

Another difference is the end of course certificate - you won't get one! If you need a certificate, please enroll in the Engaged Online Course.

Getting started is easy!

We offer three options to make it easier for you to direct your engaged couples to the track you want. Review the options below and then simply instruct your couples to select your preferred track when they enroll.


AUD $99

002 years access

Certificate and Course Report

Self-Print Workbooks

Free for Sponsors (optional uptake)

Approx. $69 USD, £55 GBP

Parish Sponsor

AUD $170

002 years access

Certificate and Course Report

Workbooks (4) shipped

Free for Sponsors

For Parishes building a Marriage Ministry

Approx. $131 USD, £96 GBP

SmartLoving Coach

AUD $395

002 years access

Certificate and Course Report

Workbooks (2) shipped

Three sessions with an SL Coach

For couples in special circumstances

Approx. $277 USD, £220 GBP

Ready to Refer Couples?

You can begin referring your engaged couples to SmartLoving today. Download the printable flyers to email, post or hand to your engaged couples.

Marriage Ministry in your Parish

Catholic Marriage Preparation in the 21st century is undergoing a radical transformation.

Psychological sciences are developing deeper insights into what makes relationships work and theological advances are equipping Catholics to more clearly and powerfully articulate the role of Matrimony in the mission of the Church.

In addition, new technologies provide flexible and more effective ways for parishes to nurture the gift of Matrimony in all its stages within their community.

With the SmartLoving Sponsor system, parishes can initiate a marriage ministry with minimum effort and powerful impact.


Partners Packages

Are you a parish or diocesan coordinator who manages ten or more couples each year?

We provide cost effective packages that allow you retain control of the preparation process and help you fund your ministry. Find out more through the link below.

Pastoral Care and Follow Up

1: Online Community

We know how important it is for couples to have access to real people and a parish sponsor couple is the ideal.  In addition, all SmartLoving online students can access our chat line, private forum, private Facebook community (SmartLoving Couples) or the Help centre for personalised assistance or advice. Further, we'll soon be launching our webinars where any couple in our platform will be able to ask questions and seek advice of the SmartLoving coaches.

2: Course Follow Up

Every lesson includes links to articles and extension activities in the member hub related to the topic for couples who require further information. Additionally, at the conclusion of the course, couples are invited to indicate if they'd like more information on a particular topic. This triggers our system to send them a series of emails with articles and resources on that topic. Couples retain access to the course and Member Hub for two years and may opt in to regular SmartLoving eNews if they choose.

3: Newlywed Course

SmartLoving Newlywed provides couples with a fortnightly email with a 30 min formation activity based on our 5-10-15 format: 5 mins input, 10 mins private reflection, 15 mins discussion. Designed to begin the week after the wedding, this course can be used by individual couples at home, or in small groups.


SmartLoving Engaged has been granted ecclesiastical approval

Nihil Obstat: Most Rev. Michael Kennedy, Bishop of Armidale

Imprimatur: +Most Reverend Anthony Fisher OP, Archbishop of Sydney

June 13, 2019 | View the Imprimatur: here

View the documentation of edits made to the existing print materials: here

Want More Detail?

Want something you can print out or use for a presentation to your leadership team? Use the links to access our resource kits that outline the process for starting a marriage catechumenate in your parish.