The Art of Apology

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 10, 2026

Have you ever experienced the situation when someone has apologised but, while the words were said it lacked something, making it difficult for you to…

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Spiritual Mothers

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 8, 2026

It’s no mistake that the modern celebration of Mothers’ Day occurs in May – the month of Mary. Our heavenly mother is the model of…

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Three Practices for a Lasting Marriage

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 1, 2026

The science confirms what the Church has taught all along  We live in an age of marital pessimism. Divorce has touched almost every family, and many…

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Time, Energy, Attention — Three Words Every Marriage Needs

By Laura C | April 24, 2026

I recently had a delightful and thought-provoking meeting with Fr. Patrick Toohey from the Catholic Archdiocese of Perth.  During it he asked me what do I thought all relationships require?   The answer? An acronym: T.E.A. which stands for:  Time,…

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Is ‘Grace Alone’ Enough for Marriage?

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 17, 2026

What YOUCAT Love Forever Says About the Real Work of Marriage    Recently a young man in the SmartLoving Engaged course asked for a refund. The reason? He felt the practical relationship skills…

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Bringing Mercy to your Marriage

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 10, 2026

It’s Divine Mercy Sunday this week, one of our favourite feasts. Inspired by the writings of St Faustina, a Polish visionary of the 20th century,…

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When Marriages Rise from the Dead

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 3, 2026

The power of forgiveness can bring even the most broken marriage back to life    Good Friday confronts us with something as remarkable: an innocent man,…

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Seven Habits of Effective Communicators

By Francine & Byron Pirola | March 27, 2026

Almost everyone agrees that communication – good communication – is essential to successful relationships. But what constitutes ‘good’ communication? The answer to that all depends…

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Openness to Life is for All of Us

By Francine & Byron Pirola | March 20, 2026

It’s not uncommon to have couples of advanced years in the SmartLoving Engaged course. One or both may be widowed or they may have only found love and…

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Power of Prayer

By Francine & Byron Pirola | March 13, 2026

Prayer does not change God, it does not always change the situation, but it does change the heart of the person praying. Many people do…

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The Rise of the Fur Baby

By Francine & Byron Pirola | March 6, 2026

Fur babies: substitute child, family asset or living therapy doll? In this blog we discuss some different views on the rise of the Fur Baby…

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Lent: the ultimate change-maker

By Francine & Byron Pirola | February 27, 2026

Like most people, our optimistic resolutions for the New Year tend to fizzle out before the end of January. Thankfully, Lent gives us another –…

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Lent: A Marriage Make-over Opportunity

By Francine & Byron Pirola | February 20, 2026

  Lent – the annual invitation to lean in closer to the Lord in our pursuit of holiness through fasting, prayer and almsgiving. This year, we’re looking to do something…

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Romance and Mystery

By Francine & Byron Pirola | February 13, 2026

  One of the things that makes a new romance so exciting and attractive is the element of uncertainty: Is this person really interested in…

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Together with Purpose

By Francine & Byron Pirola | February 6, 2026

The theme for Marriage Week prompts us to reflect – what is our purpose as a couple? Are we together merely by luck, or is…

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