ReflectSeparately, say the prayer and spend some time reflecting on the questions.
Write some notes and then share your answers more fully with your spouse.
I have to talk to You some more about my opinion of me.
It is not what it should be.
Father, I have to accept what You think of me rather than what I do.
It’s hard for me to change this.
You are going to have to help me.
Let Christ the Lord speak to you, on my behalf. Amen.
1. Check as many as apply, even sometimes. I see myself as:
|___ Ahead of most people||___ a listener|
|___ behind most people||___ a quiet type|
|___ aggressive||___ a gossip|
|___ often misunderstood||___ confrontative|
|___ forgiving||___ romantic|
|___ manipulative||___ tired|
|___ strong-willed||___ easily hurt|
|___ agreeable, permissive||___ inadequate|
|___ afraid to fight||___ indifferent|
|___ an independent thinker||___ tired of doing all the listening|
|___ critical||___ joyful|
|___ tense||___ complimentary|
|___ calm, cool, collected||___ dreamer/visionary|
|___ trusting in myself||___ practical|
|___ insecure||___ an intellectual|
|___ confident||___ judgmental|
|___ tired of doing all the talking||___ intense|
|___ decisive||___ a dependent person|
___ an achiever
|___ laid back|
|___ a logical thinker||___ unemotional|
|___ enjoying conversation||___ a good listener|
|___ honest and sincere||___ affectionate|
|___ analytical||___ argumentative|
|___ lonely||___ trusting of others|
|___ insensitive||___ easy going|