Two of Us: Sex and Sexuality
A couple exercise to explore
love making and sexual atmosphere
Reflect
Separately, say the prayer and spend some time reflecting on the questions.Write some notes so that you can share more fully with your spouse.
Prayer
What an incredible gift my sexuality is, Father.
Though at times, it puzzles and confuses me.
I’m not always comfortable with my sexuality and that of my husband/wife.
I don’t even know why, all the time. Put me at ease Father.
Jesus asks You this in my name.
Amen.
Questions:
1. Describe what specifically about my spouse I find most physically attractive?
2. Do I have fears and frustrations about sex?
3. What would I find unacceptable in our sexual experience?
4. How frequently do I want to make love? How frequently do you want to make love?
If there is a difference, what will we do?
5. When is our love making most enjoyable? Describe.
6. When sex doesn’t click for us on occasion, what do I do?
7. The sexual atmosphere I most respond to is: