Video: Breaking Through


When you feel stuck in your marriage, unable to move forward, we call it relationship gridlock. Accumulated hurts keep you both stuck in resentment and defensive. Sometimes it feels like your only choice is to stay and be miserable or leave and start again.

But there is another way…

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Francine & Byron Pirola

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  1. breakfreerut on April 18, 2016 at 12:52 pm

    I wish forgiveness like you say is the solution. Tell me, if your spouse continually repeats her shoving and intimidation and emotional blackmail WITHOUT even recognizing it and EVEN tries to justify her own actions, ALL the forgiveness in the world WON’T change a thing! email me an practical solution please.

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