Marriage Preparation

in Asia

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Flexible format

Digital rescources

Easy to run

Theology of the body

Engaged is a parish-based, marriage formation programme that integrates contemporary relationship psychology with Catholic theology for an effective and powerful experience for the engaged couple.

Combining a number of adult learning methodologies, the six-session course is designed to be used in couple-to-couple mentoring, small home-centred groups or by correspondence. The programme can also be adapted for use with large groups in parish facilities.

The core content is presented on DVD and is supported by comprehensive participant materials. Each session is of two hours duration with additional take-home activities (approximately twenty hours in total). Well resourced, Engaged offers an easy way for parishes to provide marriage preparation for their engaged couples within the parish.


Engaged LIVE

The Live course is not presently available in Asia but you may wish to attend a similar course run by our affiliates


Engaged Online

Online Marriage Preparation

Alternatively, you can always enroll in the ONLINE version of SmartLoving and if you’d like a married couple to accompany you, approach a couple from your parish and invite them to be your sponsors. They will get free access to the Sponsor version of the course when you enroll and do not need the training to get started.

SmartLoving Q&A


"We finished delivering the first SmartLoving Engaged Live course in NZ  last month and loved it. We were 3 weeks into it when the lockdown started and eventually arranged to finish the second half via Zoom.

The quality of the Smart Loving course is outstanding and in particular meets our needs to provide something for new facilitator couples to use. It is not an exaggeration to say we were both 'blown away" by what you have developed and the video talks are brilliant.

We can't fault it at all. The written material-both the Mentor Books and Couple Workbooks are clear and easy to follow. Our marriage ministry priest was apparently very impressed when shown the workbooks by a couple he is marrying.

We haven't seen the couple evaluations but hear they are glowing. We thought the COVID interruption would may be have negatively affected  the couple reviews but it appears not.  It is hard to put into words how impressed we are by what you have  created and can only say God Bless You."

Chris & Mary Martin, New Zealand

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SmartLoving Engaged has been granted ecclesiastical approval

Nihil Obstat: Most Rev. Michael Kennedy, Bishop of Armidale

Imprimatur: +Most Reverend Anthony Fisher OP, Archbishop of Sydney

June 13, 2019

View the Imprimatur: here

View the documentation of edits made to the existing print materials: here

Become a SmartLoving Engaged Mentor Couple

Couples are busy and we want to make the training process efficient and flexible. Training is comprised of four components:


Step 1: Marriage Enrichment

You need to become familiar with the frameworks of SmartLoving and experience the benefits of them by applying them in your marriage. After this, you will know whether you are suited to this ministry and will be invited to take the next step. This step can take the form of participation in either of the following:

  1. SL Online Sponsor course - this can be completed on your own at home or shared with one or more other trainee couples.
  2. SL Engaged live group course - just sit in as a participant with an engaged group in your area.
Step 2: SL Engaged Induction

This component will equip you with the techniques specific to delivery of the course and will assist you in your preparation of the presentations. Usually this is completed with self-directed study of the support materials in the Mentor Guide and in the Mentor Support Hub. Private coaching with a SL trainer via video chat is also available.

Step 3: Your First course

The next step is to run the course with the support and coaching of an experienced SL Mentor. Depending on your area and the circumstances this may be one of the following:

  1. As one couple on a team of couples facilitating a group course where you present one or more sessions.
  2. As a mentor couple facilitating the whole course with a single engaged couple, usually in your home or via video chat.
  3. As a Sponsor couple accompanying an engaged couple in the Online course.
Step 4: Ongoing formation

Your marriage needs and deserves regular nurturing and extension. You will also need to maintain your currency in the SL materials as they are regularly updated. Minimum requirements are:

  1. Presentation of the course at least once a year.
  2. Reading MRC eJournal (free subscription).
  3. Participation in at least one marriage formation activity such as a conference/inservice (eg Renaissance of Marriage), couples retreat, online relationship course (eg SL Marriage KitSL BreakThroughSL Theology), academic study (eg Theology of the Body), suitable book.

*Some Dioceses have different training requirements, so it is best to confirm this with your local leaders.

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By signing up today, you will be a part of a team of couples who are passionate about spreading the message of their call to Catholic marriage.

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