The Gift We’d Rather Not Receive

What the World Day for Grandparents and the Elderly can teach every marriage about frailty. Most of us are far more comfortable giving help than receiving it. We pride ourselves on being the capable ones – the spouse who remembers, the parent who provides, the friend everyone calls in a crisis. Competence feels like love.…

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Four Divorces and a Funeral

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If you’re over the age of forty you might recall the 1994 movie “Four Weddings and a Funeral”. While it’s not a particularly memorable movie, the title seems to have an unexpected stickiness to it. Four Divorces and a Funeral – that’s pretty much what our life has been in the past month; a string…

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