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By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 22, 2022

It’s easy to see how couples get stuck when ‘being right’ has become a habit. Clinging to our ‘right to be right’ is like gangrene in a relationship….

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Marriage Lessons from a Dog Trainer 

By Francine & Byron Pirola | September 15, 2022

A few months ago, our young Australian Shepherd went to doggie boot camp. Over five weeks she was trained by professional dog-handlers to walk calmly, socialise nicely and keep her…

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How Senior Couples Make Marriage Better

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 23, 2022

In a culture that glorifies youth and sanctions the euthanising of the sick and elderly, it’s easy to lose sight of the gift of seniors.…

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The Power of Ritual

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 12, 2022

Routines can be very useful in keeping our lives purposeful and organized. Rituals are like routines with one important difference – they have positive emotional…

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Catholic Courtship Summit 2022

By Francine & Byron Pirola | August 2, 2022

Do you have a family member or friend that is currently in a serious dating relationship, and you desire to help them discern with more…

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Too Hasty to Judge

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 29, 2022

In the age of instant news, judgment falls hastily. In marriage also, we are often quick to judge each other. Like most couples, over thirty…

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The Auto-Pilot Marriage

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 21, 2022

Crammed schedules, kids to care for, a demanding boss, the ever-present television. No wonder our attentiveness to our couple relationship erodes over time, leaving us…

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Going From Good To Better

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 14, 2022

Marital health is about more than minimizing conflict. If we want to go from ‘good’ to ‘better’ we need to capitalise on the positives. Most…

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Intentional Relationship

By Francine & Byron Pirola | July 7, 2022

No matter how easy it is to fall in love, staying in love requires attention and effort. Most people drift into love, marriage and family…

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#2 How to Love Smarter

By Francine & Byron Pirola | June 25, 2022

Is it possible to love smarter, not harder? We explore the SmartLoving framework of ‘Smart Loving’ and share our cheat sheet for winning in marriage.…

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A Sacramental Season

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 27, 2022

It’s ‘Sacrament Season’ in Australia: children are busily preparing to make their first Confession, first Holy Communion or Confirmation. Meanwhile, weddings are playing catch up…

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#1 Marriage as a Mission

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 25, 2022

What does it mean to make ‘marriage our mission’? With our guest, Philipa Caulfield, we break it down and explore how we’ve done it and…

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Restoring hope in life long marriage

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 13, 2022

Divorce creates a problem for us, a cognitive dissonance: Love is not permanent, vast, unrelenting, faithful. Redefining the ideals we have for marriage however, leads to more divorce and pain, not less.

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The Eleventh Commandment

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 6, 2022

When God gave Moses the Ten Commandments, he added a postscript for parents: passing on the faith makes parents the first – and most important…

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From Death Comes Life

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 17, 2022

Why does death and decay so horrify us? Why do our hearts restlessly seek immortality, everlasting peace, enduring joy and beauty? In this Easter message…

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