How to Help a Struggling Marriage

By Francine & Byron Pirola | February 21, 2025

A Catholic Guide   “I wanted to help, but I didn’t know how.” If you’ve been in the position of having a friend, parishioner, or family…

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Keeping Love Alive in the Present Moment

By Francine & Byron Pirola | February 13, 2025

Our romantic memories are the fabric of our couple history. When we reconnect with these memories, we reinvigorate our emotional connection in the present and…

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Pursuing a Lasting Love

By Francine & Byron Pirola | February 7, 2025

  Lessons from St. Valentine | A reflection for World Marriage Day 2025  As we approach World Marriage Day on February 9th, we are reminded…

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The Gift of #staretime

By Francine & Byron Pirola | January 31, 2025

A corporate leader in India recently made headlines by suggesting his employees should work a 90-hour week, quipping, “What do you do sitting at home?…

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Defending our hearts

By Francine & Byron Pirola | January 24, 2025

Is defensiveness crippling your relationship? Do you feel regularly on edge, reactive and punchy? Read on for our process for managing defensiveness. Recently, Byron shared…

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Virtue in Action

By Francine & Byron Pirola | January 17, 2025

In many of our courses, we teach couples strategies and skills for navigating relationships more effectively. As important as these frameworks are, research suggests that…

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Teaching love to university students

By Francine & Byron Pirola | January 10, 2025

Later this year, population experts and pronatalists will meet in Texas to explore practical solutions to declining worldwide fertility. It’s one of several signs that…

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How can I make your day better?

By Francine & Byron Pirola | January 3, 2025

I read a blog post recently from a husband who brought his marriage back from the brink with this one simple, daily habit. Each morning…

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Spare the Left-Overs

By Francine & Byron Pirola | December 27, 2024

It’s that time of year again – the season of joy and gluttony. By the time Christmas day is over, our refrigerator will be filled…

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Twelve Ways of Christmas

By Francine & Byron Pirola | December 20, 2024

Christmas is more than a day – it’s a season!  It’s easy to overlook the birthday boy in the festivities of Christmas Day. When our…

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More than “I’m Sorry”

By Francine & Byron Pirola | December 13, 2024

Saying sorry and asking for forgiveness are two very different factors in resolving arguments. Saying Sorry is Simple We were in the midst of yet…

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Going From Good To Better

By Francine & Byron Pirola | December 6, 2024

Marital health is about more than minimizing conflict. If we want to go from ‘good’ to ‘better’ we need to capitalise on the positives. Most…

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Three Ways to a Better Advent

By Francine & Byron Pirola | November 29, 2024

The Church New Year begins with Advent and is a season of preparation ahead of the birthday of Jesus. Beginning four Sundays before Christmas Day,…

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Knowing what to love

By Francine & Byron Pirola | November 22, 2024

You can’t love what you don’t know. This saying has profoundly influenced our marriage and our faith. About once a decade we book tickets to…

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Attachment Style and Marriage

By Francine & Byron Pirola | November 15, 2024

Our earliest experiences of love and care profoundly influence what we each bring into our marriage. Attachment Theory illuminates how.  As infants, we are completely…

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