From the Editors
After 40+ days of self-denial and fasting throughout Lent, it’s nice to be celebrating. The seasons of our faith are not dissimilar to the seasons of marriage – there are times when the joy is in scarce supply and times when it’s abundant. Both are opportunities for couples to deepen their intimacy and growth as individuals.
So if you’re in a dark place in your marriage, remember that there is hope and there is help – eventually the sun does rise and the darkness of the tomb is dispelled. We’re busy building our resources on the SmartLoving site, with a special emphasis on troubled and stressed marriages. Please check them out at www.smartloving.org/sos
So let the Easter feasting begin! And remember, Easter is a season, not a day – a whole 50 days!
Francine & Byron Pirola
Kincumber Marriage Seminar | March 2013 | Hear what some of the 50+ attendees had to say.
All couples go through periods where their relationship is strained. Stress, sleep-deprivation, demands from family and work can starve your marriage of the positive energy it needs and deserves. The SmartLoving BreakThrough Workshop is a practical, solution-focussed event for all stages of marriage. Drawing on contemporary research and Catholic theology, this workshop will arm you with skills and insights to transform your relationship into the thriving, joy-filled encounter that it is meant to be.
Bookings and Information: here
Cohabitation Myth | The myth behind unmarried couples living together.
Smart Dating #1: The Serial Relationship Trap | Date smart; protect your heart from disillusionment and cynicism.
Smart Dating #2: Ask ‘Why’ before you Try | How to find out if you’re sexually compatible without having sex!
Smart Dating #3: 21st Century Courtship | The advantages of dating with purpose.
Smart Dating #4: You Are What You Do | The saying is true: you are what you do. Especially in your relationships!
Smart Dating #5: The Raunch Woman | Are men interested in marrying ‘the raunch woman’?
Marriage Martyrdom | What kind of sacrifice does marriage call us to?
Five Strategies to Improve your Marriage | Five tried and proven practical strategies to uplift and refresh your marriage.
Two of Us: Personality Type | In what way do our personalities impact our relationship?
Two of Us: Communication | How effective is your communication with your spouse?
Two of Us: Need to Love | What level of effort do you put in to loving and being loved by your spouse?
Two of Us: Sexual Awareness | Exploring the gift of your sexual relationship
Two of Us: Level of Sexuality | Recognising the sexual atmosphere you create
Two of Us: Criticism and Sex | Understanding how criticism can affect your relationship
Two of Us: Topics of Conversation | A couple exercise to examine the patterns of our communication
Two of Us: Affection | Understanding the role of affection in marriage
Two of Us: Fault Finding | On criticizing your spouse
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SmartLoving @ Home
A series of DIY sessions you can use at home or in a small group. For less than the cost of a cup of coffee, you can download the file at the time of purchase and use the material on your computer, mobile device or make a print copy.
Grateful | When gratitude is present in a marriage, the couple’s good humour and welcoming generosity make their homes places of hospitality and warmth for all their visitors.
Responsible Honesty | It’s more than not telling lies; in marriage it requires an willingness to share deeply and vulnerably.
Sexuality as Gift | Learning to appreciate our sexuality and build the sexual atmosphere between us.
The Ambitious Couple | What is the role of ambition in marriage?
Hear Me Know Me | It is often said that we cannot love what we do not know.
Northern Sydney, NSW | Aug TBC
Mentoring : here
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