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Practical wisdom, faith-filled insights, and real-world relationship advice for couples at every stage. Our blog offers practical tools and Catholic perspectives to help you love smarter. Explore topics including communication, fertility, forgiveness, spirituality, parenting, and more — authored by Francine & Byron Pirola and other guest contributers.

Fertility – an Introduction

By Francine & Byron Pirola | May 2, 2012

Being married in the Catholic Church is both a challenge and a privilege. Unlike secular marriage, Catholic couples are called to a radical lifestyle …

Trinity Prayer

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 23, 2012

For a deeper experience of couple prayer and you may like to try the Trinity Prayer. This simple format: incorporates worship of God the Father…

Marriage – a Pathway to Holiness

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 23, 2012

Spiritual Intimacy It is often difficult for a couple to share their personal faith experiences with each other. This is so for couples of different…

Love Making

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 23, 2012

Sexual Response Human sexuality is a complex and varied experience; every person experiences their femininity or masculinity uniquely. Moreover, this experience will evolve over the…

For Engaged Couples – The Message of Intercourse

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 23, 2012

When a couple wants to give themselves completely to one another, nakedness communicates that kind of extraordinary generosity and openness. It says: “I give you…

Arousal Problems (Sex)

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 23, 2012

Arousal has an objective and a subjective component: The subjective component refers to feeling involved, connected and turned on. The Objective component refers to the…

Desire Problems (Sex)

By Francine & Byron Pirola | April 23, 2012

Sexual Desire Problems Our desire for sex, or libido, is not a constant throughout our lives. The hormone Testosterone is associated with libido. Testosterone levels…

Hug to Diffuse

By Francine & Byron Pirola | December 19, 2011

When the tension mounts, what can couples do to restore their harmony? The Connect Hug is simple and powerful. Learn how to hug to diffuse.…

Knot Yet #8: Finding Myself

By Francine & Byron Pirola | December 16, 2011

How important is it to have a solid self-identity before committing to marriage? When emerging adults in committed relationships are polled about why they haven’t…

Knot Yet! #7: The Continuity Factor

By Francine & Byron Pirola | December 16, 2011

Is there any continuity between single life and marriage? Or is success (or disaster) in marriage just a matter of fate? Many people assume that…

Knot Yet! #6: The Marriage Drain Myth

By Francine & Byron Pirola | December 16, 2011

Does marriage take more than it gives? Is it a drain or is it a reservoir? “You’re throwing your life away!”, was the message one…